No two situations are the same
"Married dating" covers a wide range of people. Some have a partner who knows and agrees. Some are in a relationship that has changed over time. Some are separated in all but name. Others are considering something their partner would not know about. These situations carry very different responsibilities and risks, and a good platform should not pretend otherwise.
Before you look at any site, it helps to be clear about your own position. Our self-assessment checklist is a candid place to start, and alternatives to an affair sets out options that involve no secrecy at all.
Does the platform fit your circumstances?
A site aimed at married or partnered people should be clear about who it is for, so that the people you meet are looking for something similar. Look for:
- clear wording about the kind of connections the site is for
- profile fields that let people state their relationship status and what they want
- privacy controls that let you limit who sees your photos
- a straightforward way to leave and delete your data
Our guide on how to compare dating sites for married people turns these into questions you can check on any site.
Weighing up the risks
Any relationship outside a marriage can affect your partner, your family, your finances and, in some cases, a later divorce. We set these out plainly in the real risks of an affair. Reading it is not meant to put you off. It is meant to help you decide with your eyes open.
How MaisnX fits
MaisnX is designed for partnered adults who value discretion.
- MaisnX is for adults aged 18 and over.
- Photos you upload start as private. You choose which photos to make public, and you can move them back.
- Women can message men for free. Men need an active paid membership to send messages.
- MaisnX is currently available to members in the United Kingdom.
Read how MaisnX works and our safety information for more detail.
Common questions
Do I have to say I am married on my profile?
Profiles show a relationship status, so members can find people in a similar position. What else you share is up to you, and you can keep identifying details out of your profile entirely.
Is a site for married people right for an open relationship?
It can be, but say so on your profile. People in open relationships and people keeping things private often want different things, and saying which you are avoids misunderstandings.