Username
Nothing that links to you: no real name, birth year, car, pet or old email handle. Test: could someone Google it and find you?
Photos
- No face? Say why, or use locked photos you unlock for trusted people.
- Check backgrounds: street signs, house numbers, work lanyards.
- Remove EXIF data. Phone photos carry location.
- Reverse-image search yourself first. If your photo exists online, someone else can find you.
Bio formula
Vibe + what you enjoy + what you want + one cheeky line. "Laid-back, quick-witted, partial to long dinners and short texts. Looking for a discreet, no-drama connection. Warning: I laugh at my own jokes."
What to leave out
Employer, neighbourhood, school, children's names, exact age if you're worried, and anything you've posted publicly.
FAQs
Do I need a face photo?
Not necessarily, but people respond to trust. Locked photos are a good middle ground.
What should my profile say about being married?
Be honest. People will ask anyway.
How do I stand out?
Specifics beat clichés. "Sunday roast, then trouble" beats "I love to laugh."