The 8-point checklist
- Who runs it? A real company with contact details.
- Privacy policy. Plain English: what's stored, for how long, who sees it.
- Data claims you can test. "No IP logging" is a strong claim, so check the policy backs it.
- Payment options. Crypto or discreet billing descriptors. Ask what appears on your statement.
- Age verification. Real checks protect everyone.
- Photo controls. Locked or private-by-default photos.
- Moderation and reporting. Fake profiles and scams should be dealt with.
- Deleting your account. Can you remove your data completely?
Red flags
Free sign-up but you must pay to read messages, no company details, vague "100% anonymous" claims, and pressure to move to other apps immediately.
FAQs
Is any site 100% anonymous?
No. Treat that phrase as a warning, not a promise.
Are free sites safe?
Sometimes, but if you're not paying, check how else they earn money.
Should I use a VPN?
It adds a layer of privacy and costs little.